Intro

In this report, I would like to refer to a coaching session I did in June 2024, because it is exemplary for many and yet, as always, unique!

A father and entrepreneur had contacted me and asked me if I could take care of his son, who was doing very badly. As a managing director in the company, he works perfectly, but if the son came home in the evening, he would be devastated, would have no more energy and could not fall asleep. He is very worried!

I accepted the mandate, cleared my schedule and in the evening of the following day we met online for an MS Teams meeting.

Coaching Part 1

Clarification of assignment

In conversation with the client, the following emerged:

"A year ago on vacation, it had taken a hit. Since then, I've had heart pain when I'm at home or on vacation. I was recently in America and it was pure horror. I thought I was dying. My heart is racing, I can't sleep and my heart hurts. When I'm in the company, everything is okay and I don't have any problems. When I come home in the evening and get some peace and quiet, then it starts again."

I asked: Who are you when you're in the company, and who are you when you're at home? The answer was very interesting, because the client said:

"In the company, I am MYSELF. And at home I try to be (here he gave his first name). In the company, I live my vocation and my love. I am present. I am needed and I belong. At home I have no self-esteem and heartache."

Intervention

How did I approach the topic?

First, I sent him on an association journey, starting in the company. Then the way home, go to bed and come to rest. Then, according to the procedure in the case of overload, I asked where the load was in the room and how it was expressed, in what form.

It was a dark cloud above him, spread very wide. And the feeling towards the cloud was "frightening". The ME felt crushed and the feeling was in the heart.

Then I asked the client. "If there was a child associated with this feeling that the cloud triggers in him, where in the room is that child?" I gave a lecture on this last year at the international conference of the Society for Mental Space Psychology (SOMSP). The child appeared behind him at four o'clock at a distance of one meter. He was about five years old and was a boy who looked sadly at the I. The feeling that the boy triggered in the ME was very bad. I found out with the method "What is the intention behind the intention" that I developed that the core interest of the sad boy was the non-existent feeling of longing "joy". So we gave this highly effective resource "joy" to the boy and so the boy was able to improve his feeling in a positive way. After my hint to the boy that he could now develop if he wanted, he developed from his 5 years to the age of 12. The pollution cloud had become brighter.

At this point, we interrupted the first session because the client was energetically exhausted and continued it the following day.

The impulse for the boy's development continued during the night.

Coaching Part 2

The next day he stood on the left side of the ME and looked forward together with the ME and the feeling was much better. However, the "I" did not develop any feeling in relation to the boy (= neutral) and when one associated with the boy, the boy felt strong. Therefore, we still gave the ego self-confidence as a resource. Now the ME developed a strong and positive feeling towards the boy. The boy developed into a creature of the same age. At eye level with a strong, good feeling. Like friends.
The depression cloud had moved away and was no longer noticeable.

We found out that the boy was probably a self-image of the ME. Through the resource gift of "joy" and "self-confidence", both the ego and the "boy", who is now the same age, felt strong and free and light. The boy wanted to get into the body of the I. We then let the boy find a place in the heart as a self-image and the previously existing emptiness in the heart was filled with it. Lightness without physical heartache.

We then secured this good result with epigenetic self-strengthening. This means that we did a time regression at the time of conception of the client and strengthened the father's sperm and the mother's egg with the previously used resources "joy" and "self-confidence". These resources were accepted. And the client returns to the present strengthened by his life.

Result

For the logicians among us: What had happened to the client at the age of 5?

The parents had separated!

Duration of the intervention: 2.5 hours on the first day and 1.5 hours on the second day.

The result: a satisfied client and a happy father.

Feedback from the client after just under a week:

„… so much better!

I don't drive myself crazy at all in the evening before going home. In bed very slight restlessness. But I fall asleep very quickly.

Bit of new life kind of 😘 "

 

We then completely pacified the remaining unrest in two more coaching sessions...